As per Section 16(2)(a), tax-payer should be in possession of a tax invoice or debit note issued by a supplier registered under this Act, or such other tax paying documents as may be prescribed, before taking ITC.
As tax-payer got possession of debit-note in Nov, 23 and entered the same in books of accounts of Nov, 23, he should take ITC against such debit-note in November, 23 only.
If tax-payer is following Circular No. 170/02/2022-GST, then, such ITC will be shown while filing Table 4(A)(5) of Form GSTR-3B of October, 23, while simultaneously reversing the same under 4(B)(2) (i.e. others) and then, reclaim such ITC while filing GSTR-3B for the month of November, 23.
These are ex facie views of mine and the same should not be construed as professional advice / suggestion.